By Hon. Evelyn J. Laporte, Retired NYS Supreme Court Judge & Confidence Coach for AttorneysConfidence is not handed to you with your law degree—it’s cultivated through experience, mindset, and a willingness to grow beyond your fears. The transition from
Rejection can sting. Whether it’s a job interview, a romantic interest, a business proposal, or even a creative idea—being told “no” can feel like a personal attack. But here’s the truth: Rejection is not a reflection of your worth—it’s
Asking for help can be challenging. In both our personal and professional lives, the fear of appearing incompetent often holds us back. Whether you’re in a workplace setting, trying to improve your skills, or simply dealing with a tough
Fear is a natural emotion
One we all face, especially when we’re pushing outside our comfort zones. Whether it’s fear of failure, judgment, or the unknown, it can hold us back from stepping into our full
Do you ever feel like you’re your own worst enemy? You set goals, make plans, and start off strong — only to find yourself falling back into old patterns that hold you back. That’s the power of sabotaging habits.
Every time someone mentions imposter syndrome, I feel like they’re talking about me. And maybe that proves I have it.
It started with a small win—a promotion I had worked for, one
Confidence isn’t something you wake up with—it’s something you decide to step into every single day.
💡 You don’t need permission to own your voice.💡 You don’t need approval to stand tall.💡
A single hesitation can shift the momentum of your case. Opposing counsel pushes the limits, the jury listens, and suddenly—damage is done.
Knowing when and how to object isn’t optional—
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Have you ever felt like you don’t belong?
Like you’re just waiting for everyone to discover that you’re not as capable as they think? Imposter syndrome affects many






